Sometimes all that parents who never married each other need is a written agreement about their parenting plan. Where will the kids be for school days and nights? What about weekends, school breaks, summers, and holidays? Having a written agreement reduces misunderstandings and future disputes. It makes planning special events easier for both parents and for their children.
Sometimes circumstances change and parents who have been divorced for more than a year need to modify their parenting plan. If they need any professional assistance with negotiations, mediation is the most cooperative and least distressing process for re-evaluating and revising the schedule.
The new parenting plan can be incorporated into a court order if either party asks the court to do that. Most courts still use the unfriendly terms “custody” and “visitation” when writing orders about parenting schedules.
The author, Virginia L. Colin, Ph.D., is a Professional Family Mediator certified by the Virginia Supreme Court. She is not an attorney or a therapist. This article is for informational purposes only. Nothing here should be construed as legal advice.
For a free consultation about whether family mediation would be helpful for your family, contact Dr. Colin at mediatorQ@gmail.com or 703.864.2101.
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